Somizi Reveals Why He Would Never Date Vusi Nova But Chose to Date Mohale

Somizi Mhlongo has never been shy about sharing his truth, and once again, the beloved South African media personality has left the nation talking.

In a candid interview that quickly went viral, Somizi opened up about the nature of his longtime friendship with musician Vusi Nova and explained why, despite their undeniable chemistry and deep bond, he would never date him.

At the same time, he reflected on his decision to date and eventually marry Mohale Motaung — a choice that brought both joy and controversy into his life.

For years, fans have speculated about Somizi’s relationship with Vusi Nova.

The two have shared vacations, posted affectionate photos, and supported each other publicly in ways that made many believe there was more than friendship between them.

Their closeness even sparked rumors that Vusi might have been the reason for the cracks in Somizi’s marriage to Mohale.

But Somizi has finally put the rumors to rest — and his reasons are deeply personal.

“I love Vusi Nova with all my heart,” Somizi said.

“But I would never date him.

We are soulmates in a different way.

He’s my anchor, my friend, my protector — but we don’t have romantic chemistry.”

According to Somizi, their bond is so strong because it exists without pressure or expectation.

They’ve seen each other through the worst of times — including the breakdown of Somizi’s marriage — and their loyalty has never wavered.

Somizi believes that dating Vusi would complicate and possibly ruin the one relationship in his life that has remained constant.

“There’s a peace I get from Vusi that I’ve never found in a romantic partner,” Somizi continued.

“If we dated, I’d be afraid to lose that.

Some people are meant to be your forever — just not romantically.”

His reflections then turned to Mohale Motaung, the man he chose to marry in 2020.

Their wedding was a national spectacle, celebrated in a multi-million rand ceremony broadcast on Showmax.

It was a moment of pride for the LGBTQ+ community in South Africa, but behind the scenes, the relationship was more fragile than it appeared.

When asked why he dated and married Mohale, Somizi didn’t dodge the question.

“I believed in what we had,” he said.

“At the time, it felt right.

Mohale came into my life at a moment when I was vulnerable, but also ready to love.

He was kind, attentive, and I was taken by his calm energy.

I was ready to build something.”

But as time went on, Somizi admitted that things began to shift.

“The relationship became imbalanced.

I felt like I was giving more than I was receiving.

And eventually, we both stopped trying.”

He also acknowledged that fame may have played a role in their relationship, both positively and negatively.

“The cameras were always there.

Everything was public.

The pressure to be perfect, to be the couple everyone admired — it became too much.”

The marriage ended in a bitter fallout, with allegations, leaked interviews, and legal threats dominating headlines.

Mohale accused Somizi of emotional and physical abuse, which Somizi denied.

The controversy led to Somizi temporarily stepping down from various television roles and going through one of the most public personal breakdowns of his life.

Still, Somizi says he’s not bitter about the experience.

“I don’t regret marrying Mohale.

I regret how it ended.

But every relationship teaches you something, and that one taught me a lot about myself.”

He contrasted the relationship with his friendship with Vusi Nova once more, emphasizing that some bonds are not meant to be romantic.

“With Vusi, there’s no pretending.

I can be broken and whole at the same time, and he’ll sit with me in silence.

That’s rare.”

Fans online have responded with mixed emotions.

Some praised Somizi for his honesty and vulnerability, while others questioned the timing of his comments — especially given the lingering tension with Mohale.

But many agreed on one thing: Somizi is finally speaking his truth and choosing peace.

“I don’t owe anyone an explanation, but I want people to know that love is not one-size-fits-all,” Somizi said in closing.

“Sometimes, the person you think you should be with isn’t the one who brings you peace.

And sometimes, the person who brings you peace is the one you should never risk losing.”

Whether you admire his resilience or question his past choices, one thing is undeniable — Somizi Mhlongo remains one of the most fearless voices in South African entertainment.

He’s unfiltered, unapologetic, and always evolving.

And as he continues to navigate friendship, fame, and healing, fans will no doubt keep watching — not just for the drama, but for the authenticity that comes with every word he speaks.