The Heartbreaking Tale of a Mother’s Struggle

Last year, I was eagerly awaiting the return of my children from school. However, things took a chaotic turn when I had to deal with issues like renewing my ID and missing bank cards. It was a serious mess until I learned to navigate through it.

One day, I approached someone without any prior planning. This encounter was not something I had anticipated, but it turned out to be significant.

On TikTok, I often share snippets of my family life. Being everywhere, I sometimes need help, especially since my children are all under 18.

Recently, I’ve been deeply disturbed and confused. As a psychiatric nurse, I work with patients and hold a professional degree. Yet, I find myself struggling to understand how I could be diagnosed with a mental disorder. This diagnosis has deeply affected me, and I’m at a loss.

I believe that children have the right to see their parents, whether they are separated or not. We all deserve to see our children, regardless of our circumstances.

Today, we’re starting the month of November with more drama, similar to everyone else. If you’re on TikTok, you might be familiar with Pani. I only came across her a few months ago and was shocked to see how young she looks and that she has six or seven kids.

Following her, I learned that she has a blended family. Ukam has two kids, and her husband came into the marriage with four children. Sometimes, I see a seventh child in the pictures, but I’m not sure if the child belongs to one of them or is adopted.

As a woman and mother, I wondered how a man with children could enter a marriage. Is the mother dead? What is going on? Only to learn that the mother of the four kids is still alive. People are shocked that a mother could let another woman raise her children.

However, it’s not that surprising if the mother is not mentally well or was assessed as unfit to raise four kids. Sometimes, if the man has more money, he can afford better lawyers and end up with full custody of the children.

There’s a heartbreaking story of a woman who lost her child because the father had more money and won full custody. The mother was treated like a criminal when she wanted to see her child, with people always around her.

Seeing another woman crying about almost the same thing—her children being taken away—is heartbreaking. Four kids were allegedly taken from her, and she’s not allowed to see them. These are children she carried for nine months.

Some people are defending the situation, saying the children look happy in the videos. But in 2024, we know that happiness in videos doesn’t always reflect reality. Couples and individuals can appear happy in videos, only to be abused behind closed doors.

Every child has the right to see their mother, especially if she is still alive. Why would someone deny this basic right? The woman claims she is a nurse and was fit to care for her children. The way the children were allegedly taken from her was not legal, but the man had more money and bought lawyers.

In the comments, she mentioned that she left her ex-husband because he was cheating with more than 20 women. This revelation is shocking and raises questions about the integrity of the situation.

Please share your thoughts below. I will definitely see you on the next one.