When it comes to South African celebrity gossip, no topic is too private or off-limits.
Recently, the drama surrounding influencer Mihlali Ndamase and her ex-boyfriend, Leeroy Sidambe, made waves, with Somizi Mhlongo getting in on the action.
The media mogul and reality TV star is never shy to share his opinion, and he didn’t hold back when it came to Mihlaliâs alleged behavior after her breakup with Leeroy.
The headline-making moment came when it was revealed that Mihlali had called Leeroy 75 times following their split.
Somizi, known for his quick wit and candid commentary, wasted no time in roasting Mihlali for her actions.
But what exactly happened, and why did Somizi find this so amusing? Letâs break down the situation and explore the heated exchange between the two stars.
The Drama: Mihlali Ndamase and Leeroy Sidambe’s Breakup
Mihlali Ndamase and Leeroy Sidambe’s relationship had captured public attention for some time, thanks to their social media presence and their high-profile love story.
Mihlali, a popular beauty influencer and content creator, and Leeroy, a businessman, were often seen together, sparking rumors and speculation about their relationship.
However, like many celebrity relationships, theirs came to an end, and it wasn’t a quiet breakup.
After the split, things appeared to get a bit messy.
According to reports, Mihlali allegedly called Leeroy a staggering 75 times in an attempt to resolve matters or perhaps seek closure.
This intense post-breakup behavior raised eyebrows among fans and celebrities alike, leading to public scrutiny.
Somiziâs Roast: “75 Times, Really?”
Somizi Mhlongo, always at the center of attention and known for his no-holds-barred commentary, couldnât resist weighing in on the drama.
During one of his public appearances, he made light of Mihlaliâs actions, poking fun at her for dialing Leeroyâs number 75 times.
â75 times? What was she expecting? A âWelcome back, babyâ on the 76th call? Why not just send a text, girl? You could have solved that in five minutes.
Come on now,â Somizi joked.
His playful roast left the audience in stitches, but it also highlighted the absurdity of Mihlaliâs actions, according to Somiziâs perspective.
The Idols SA judge further quipped, âI donât know if thatâs love or just plain obsession.
Maybe she was trying to get back to that 75th call to hear a different version of the story.
Or maybe she was hoping heâd pick up and say, âI miss you too,ââ Somizi continued, keeping the humor rolling.
Mihlali Ndamaseâs Response
As expected, Mihlali did not stay silent after Somiziâs playful roast.
While she took the comments in stride and remained calm in the face of the public teasing, she did address the situation on social media.
In her response, Mihlali made it clear that her actions were out of a need for closure and that, like anyone whoâs been through a breakup, she too was trying to process her emotions.
âItâs funny how everyone always has something to say when you’re healing.
I called him, yes, but thatâs my business.
Healing looks different for everyone, and I didnât need to explain myself to anyone,â Mihlali posted on her Instagram story.
While she didnât directly respond to Somiziâs comments, her message was clear: she was not bothered by the roast, but she was unapologetic about seeking closure in her own way.
Why the Public Is So Invested in Mihlali and Leeroyâs Breakup
The publicâs fascination with Mihlali Ndamase and Leeroy Sidambeâs breakup can be attributed to a few factors.
Firstly, Mihlali has built an impressive following on social media, with millions of fans watching her every move.
Her relationship with Leeroy was part of her public persona, and when the breakup hit the headlines, fans naturally wanted to know what had gone wrong.
Moreover, celebrity breakups tend to spark interest because they offer a glimpse into the personal lives of the stars, often providing fodder for gossip and entertainment.
The idea that Mihlali called Leeroy 75 times after their breakup took this public curiosity to new heights.
The sheer number of calls raised questions about whether the relationship was really over or if there was still hope for reconciliation, making it the perfect topic for public discussion.
Somizi, ever the entertainer, capitalized on this curiosity with his sharp and humorous take on the situation, making Mihlaliâs personal matter a public spectacle.
His comments also underscored the intense pressure celebrities face when dealing with their private lives under the scrutiny of the media and public.
Somizi’s Reputation for Speaking His Mind
Somizi Mhlongo is no stranger to controversy, and his outspoken nature is one of the reasons he remains such a prominent figure in South African entertainment.
Whether it’s his candid comments on social media, his appearances on reality TV shows like Living the Dream with Somizi, or his time as a judge on Idols SA, Somizi has built a reputation for being unapologetically real.
While his comments can sometimes border on roasting, Somizi has a unique ability to laugh at himself and others, turning what could be awkward situations into moments of humor.
His friendship with Mihlali Ndamase also helps to explain why he felt comfortable making light of the situationâhe clearly wasnât trying to attack her, but rather poking fun in a way that only he can.
Is Mihlaliâs Behavior Normal After a Breakup?
Mihlaliâs post-breakup behavior, including calling her ex 75 times, may seem extreme to some, but itâs not entirely uncommon.
Many people struggle with the emotional fallout of a breakup, especially when unresolved feelings or lack of closure are involved.
In Mihlaliâs case, her attempts to reach out may have been driven by her need to understand what went wrong and to process the end of the relationship.
Psychologists often say that seeking closure is a natural part of the healing process, but thereâs a fine line between seeking closure and obsessively trying to rekindle whatâs been lost.
For some, repeated contact after a breakup can signal an inability to let go, which could be unhealthy in the long run.
However, it’s important to remember that everyone heals differently, and Mihlaliâs actions reflect her personal journey.