Mihlali Ndamase’s Emotional Moment
Mihlali Ndamase, a well-known South African influencer and content creator, recently found herself in the spotlight after posting and then quickly deleting a video that resonated with many of her followers.
In the video, she candidly expressed her struggles, revealing that despite appearing cheerful on social media, she was grappling with personal challenges.
This moment highlighted the often unseen battles that individuals face, even those who seem to have it all together.
Mihlali’s vulnerability has sparked conversations about mental health and the importance of acknowledging one’s feelings.
The Impact of Social Media
Social media platforms can create a facade of perfection, leading many to believe that influencers live flawless lives.
Mihlali’s decision to share her struggles serves as a reminder that appearances can be deceiving.
The pressure to maintain a certain image online can be overwhelming, causing individuals to hide their true emotions.
By candidly discussing her feelings, Mihlali encourages her followers to recognize that it’s okay not to be okay.
This message is particularly crucial during the holiday season, a time often associated with joy and celebration, which can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and sadness for some.
The Video’s Content and Reaction
In her brief video, Mihlali spoke about her recent experiences with alcohol and how it made her realize something was amiss in her life.
She acknowledged that excessive drinking was a sign that she was not coping well and needed to address her emotional state.
The video, although short-lived, resonated with many who have faced similar struggles.
Viewers expressed their support and understanding, emphasizing the importance of having open conversations about mental health.
Mihlali’s willingness to share her story fosters a sense of community among those who may feel isolated in their struggles.
The Importance of Vulnerability
Mihlali’s experience underscores the significance of vulnerability in today’s society.
By sharing her feelings, she not only validates her own emotions but also provides a safe space for others to do the same.
Vulnerability can be a powerful tool for healing, allowing individuals to connect with others who may be experiencing similar challenges.
Mihlali’s openness encourages her followers to seek help when needed and to prioritize their mental well-being.
This shift towards authenticity can foster a more supportive environment, where people feel comfortable discussing their struggles without fear of judgment.
Moving Forward with Hope
Despite the challenges she faced, Mihlali ended her video on a hopeful note, reminding her audience that it is possible to overcome difficult times.
She emphasized that while it may feel overwhelming, the situation is not permanent.
This message of resilience is crucial, especially during times of hardship.
Mihlali’s journey serves as a reminder that healing is a process, and it’s important to take one step at a time.
By sharing her story, she inspires others to embrace their struggles and seek the support they need to navigate through tough times.
The Broader Conversation on Mental Health
Mihlali Ndamase’s experience has opened up a broader conversation about mental health, particularly in the context of social media.
As more influencers share their personal struggles, it becomes increasingly important to prioritize mental well-being.
The stigma surrounding mental health issues can prevent individuals from seeking help, but public figures like Mihlali play a crucial role in changing this narrative.
By fostering open discussions and encouraging vulnerability, we can create a culture that values mental health and supports those in need.
Mihlali’s message serves as a reminder that everyone deserves compassion and understanding, especially during challenging times.
Leeroy Sidambe and Mihlali Ndamase at the Floyd Mayweather banquet dinner at Sandton Convention Centre on July 15 2023.
Leeroy Sidambe and Mihlali Ndamase at the Floyd Mayweather banquet dinner at Sandton Convention Centre on July 15 2023.
Image: Oupa Bopape
The whirlwind romance between YouTube sensation Mihlali Ndamase and businessman Leeroy Sidambe has been making headlines for all the wrong reasons.
From allegations of infidelity and abuse to public spats and shocking revelations, their relationship has been a rollercoaster ride of drama and controversy.
As the year comes to a close, we take a look back at the many times Mihlali and Leeroy made headlines in 2024:
The couple met on a video call when a woman from Mihlali’s hometown, who was friends with Leeroy, connected them while she was out of town for work. They later went on their first date at a Cape Town restaurant overlooking the beach and went to a popular club.
Many have speculated about how the two started dating, claiming Leeroy’s estranged wife Mary Jane had not signed divorce papers.
Leeroy was adamant he had parted ways with Mary Jane and found love with Mihlali when they had separated and he was free to “move on in whatever manner”.
Mihlali and Leeroy rekindle their love
In October 2023, the two were said to have called it quits. When rumours about the couple rekindling their love surfaced in May 2024, Leeroy was quick to pour water on the reports.
“I am not dating Mihlali nor are we back together,” Leeroy told TshisaLIVE.
‘I am not dating Mihlali nor are we back together’: Leeroy Sidambe dispels ‘false’ reports
“Stop reporting on my love life.”
TshisaLIVE7 months ago
Mihlali alleges she was abused
On August 5, Mihlali shot up trends lists after she briefly shared images of bruises on her forehead, lips and under her eye on her Instagram story, writing “Thank you my angel Leeroy,” before deleting the posts.
Mihlali Ndamase’s Instagram stories.
Mihlali Ndamase’s Instagram stories.
Image: Instagram/ Mihlali Ndamase
Leeroy accuses Mihlali of allegedly abusing him throughout relationship
Leeroy claimed Mihlali made 78 calls to him on a Sunday with no response because he was asleep, which led to Mihlali allegedly arriving at his residence and “persistently” requesting his son open for her.
“Mihlali Ndamase then came to my bedroom as I was asleep to confront me for being unfaithful and attempted to stab me. I protected myself by pushing her away from me, resulting in her sustaining her injuries as she made contact with the wall. My son came to my rescue after hearing me shouting and pleading for Mihlali not to kill me.”
‘Mihlali has a long history of physically assaulting me,’ claims businessman Leeroy Sidambe
Businessman Leeroy Sidambe alleges Mihlali sustained bruises when she tried to stab him at his home.
TshisaLIVE4 months ago
Mihlali comes clean
Mihlali later shared an open letter, saying the matter that came to public light had “deeply” affected her and her business.
It is with great vulnerability I admit I was involved in a toxic relationship. This relationship started off verbally and emotionally harmful and matters quickly escalated to it being physically harmful.
I, unlike others, take full accountability for my involvement in the toxic dynamic. One can only be quiet for so long after tolerating gaslighting, aggression, emotional abuse, manipulation, obsessive behaviour and control tactics employed by an individual. Tactics used to distort my perception of love, which led me down a path of pain and torment. The scars of this experience run deep and the trauma continues to echo in my personal life and in my business.
‘I admit I was involved in a toxic relationship’ — Mihlali Ndamase breaks her silence
“This relationship started off verbally and emotionally harmful and matters quickly escalated to it being physically harmful.”
TshisaLIVE4 months ago
Mihlali exposes Leeroy again
Mihlali sparked a heated debate on social media after going live on Instagram, calling Leeroy a “double adapter”, suggesting he is bisexual.
After facing a backlash on social media, Mihlali issued an apology to the LGBTQIA+ community for using derogatory phrases during a live stream.
“I would like to apologise to the LGBTQIA+ family. My intention was not to harm or offend with the phrases used during my live. I acknowledge that a significant portion of my support comes from the LGBTQIA+ community, and I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for the love and support you have shown me since the beginning of my career.”
