The ongoing drama surrounding the marriage of South African music heavyweights Murdah Bongz and DJ Zinhle has reached a new boiling point, as the alleged โmain side chick,โ Kimberly, has seemingly ended her association with the star in a furious public statement.
This latest chapter of the scandal reveals a multi-faceted web of infidelity, suggesting that Murdah Bongzโthe stage name for Bongani Mohosanaโhas been engaging with multiple women simultaneously, a discovery that reportedly led to Kimberlyโs abrupt and emotional exit from the clandestine relationship.
Before delving into the shocking new revelations, a clarification regarding the DJ’s stage name, often a point of contention among fans, is necessary.
The artist, formerly of the acclaimed group Black Motion, has himself addressed the ambiguity.
“I just came across this video where he says he is murder as in like murder like murdering people.”
This statement confirms that the intended pronunciation is indeed “Murdah,” not the widely mispronounced “Motor” or “MetaBongs,” lending an ironically dark confirmation to his chosen moniker.
“So, yeah, you all better not come for me cuz I have proof now.”
“He is Metabongs and not Motor Bongs, right?”
With the identity and name confusion cleared, the focus shifts to the dramatic new developments that have further tarnished the image of the married DJ.
The catalyst for this new wave of scandal was the emergence of damning screenshots and testimonial evidence from yet another woman claiming to be involved with Murdah Bongz.
This new evidence directly contradicted the presumed exclusivity of his alleged extramarital affair with Kimberly, throwing the entire narrative into disarray.
A key screenshot captured the essence of the mounting allegations: “One thing about Metabongs, he will cheat on his wife.”
This blunt accusation underscores the perceived pattern of behavior attributed to the star within the social media sphere.
The initial public perception was that Kimberly was the singular, primary mistress.
“The first side chick we knew is Kimberly, right?”
“Allegedly, of course.”
The revelation of multiple affairs shattered this illusion of hierarchy, suggesting Kimberly may have mistakenly believed she held a privileged position.
“It looks like she thought she was the main side chick.”
The new evidence portrays Murdah Bongz as far more opportunistic and indiscriminate in his alleged infidelity.
The consensus now points towards a pattern where, “where Ma gets an opportunity, he will use it to cheat on his wife.”
This alleged indiscriminate approach to cheating is what ultimately led to Kimberly’s public display of frustration and her subsequent declaration of separation.
The details provided by a new accuser were particularly damaging, offering a specific 2023 timeline for an alleged encounter.
This girl attended an event where Murdah Bongz was performing.
As a fan, she took a video, posted it on her Instagram stories, and mentioned the DJ’s handle.
The power of social media and its capacity to facilitate celebrity access was immediately evident.
“Metab saw an opportunity to sleep with her.”
The sequence of events described paints a picture of quick and calculated action.
Allegedly, he immediately sent her a DM like, “Where are you?”
He then followed up, saying, “Yeah, come join me.”
“I’m at this place.”
This immediate digital pursuit led the fan directly to the star’s temporary residence.
“And that’s how this girl ended up in Metabox’s hotel room, you guys.”
Crucially, the new accuser claimed that the physical act of cheating did not ultimately occur.
“But fortunately, they did not do anything cuz this girl was just like, ‘No, man. I don’t like this, you know, cuz I know this guy is in a relationship with DJs in BL.'”
While the encounter allegedly stopped short of intercourse due to the fan’s moral boundary, the attempted infidelity itselfโthe predatory use of social media to lure a fan to a hotel roomโwas sufficient evidence to expose the breadth of Murdah Bongzโs alleged extramarital activities.
This new revelation of widespread cheating triggered an explosive reaction from Kimberly, the now-dethroned “main side chick.”
Upon receiving this fresh batch of evidence, Kimberly responded publicly, and her post was interpreted by many as a definitive breakup announcement.
“Kimali responded you guys and it seems like she just damned ma.”
She took to her TikTok page, issuing a pointed and emotionally charged statement that focused on self-worth and betrayal.
Her post was a stark piece of advice to other women: “Word to my ladies don’t ever change who you are for anyone.”
“Stay true to who you are and the truth will expose itself.”
The most telling line, seemingly directed at Murdah Bongzโs wavering commitment, was: “And don’t let a man tell you more than once that he is done.”
This final phrase suggests that there had been previous conversations or attempts by Murdah Bongz to end or define the relationship, which Kimberly may have chosen to ignore until the scale of his cheating became public.
The post was powerfully captioned with a declaration of independence and recovery: “I choose myself.”
“I will be okay.”
This public dumping confirms that the alleged entanglement was based on a foundation of perceived exclusivity or at least, a belief that Kimberly held a special place, which was abruptly and painfully revoked by the actions of other women.
Her fuming post and subsequent emotional distancing highlight a common pitfall of being involved with a married man.
As the analysis pointed out: “One thing about married men, they will make you a side chick and want to get benefits of a main chick.”
The implication is that Murdah Bongz demanded loyalty, emotional investment, and attention from Kimberlyโthe benefits of a main chickโwhile simultaneously refusing to grant her the exclusivity or recognition she desired, and actively seeking other women.
The entire scandal has shifted from a question of whether Murdah Bongz was cheating on DJ Zinhle to a question of the sheer quantity of his infidelity.
The narrative has moved from one of a single, emotional affair to one of casual, widespread encounters facilitated by the convenience of celebrity status and social media.
Kimberly’s decision to break her silence and publicly announce her self-prioritization serves as a cautionary tale not just for married celebrities but for those who choose to engage with them.
Her choice to “choose herself” is a direct response to the humiliation of realizing she was one of many, rather than the singular, special exception she may have believed herself to be.
The reaction from the online public remains mixed, with some showing sympathy for Kimberlyโs emotional turmoil, while others maintain that she willingly entered the toxic situation and is now reaping the consequences of her choices.
Regardless of the public’s judgment, Kimberly’s TikTok post acts as a definitive line in the sand, marking her public severance from the celebrity’s entanglement.
The revelations about Murdah Bongzโs alleged DMs and hotel invitations to a fan also severely complicate the position of his wife, DJ Zinhle.
Her previously unbothered stance, often interpreted as silent strength or calculated disregard for the drama, now faces a barrage of evidence suggesting a deeply entrenched pattern of marital infidelity.
The public pressure on DJ Zinhle to finally address the situation or make a public statement regarding the state of her marriage will undoubtedly intensify following Kimberly’s dramatic public exit and the details provided by the other fan.
The core of this entire, messy affair is the intersection of fame, digital accessibility, and moral accountability.
Murdah Bongzโs alleged use of his celebrity status and his social media platform to secure sexual encounters with fans illustrates a clear abuse of power and a cynical disregard for the boundaries of his marriage.
The women involved, particularly Kimberly, believed they were entering a situation with a level of unique connection, only to discover they were part of a rotation.
Kimberlyโs public statement, while self-serving in its delivery, ultimately exposes the vulnerability and emotional risk inherent in being the ‘other woman,’ particularly when that man is a widely recognized public figure.
Her realization that the “truth will expose itself” through the actions of other side chicks, rather than through his own honesty, is the devastating core of her heartbreak and her subsequent fuming departure.
This incident, starting from a small TikTok post and escalating into a full-blown celebrity breakup (of the side relationship, no less), highlights the fragile and often humiliating nature of secret entanglements when they inevitably collide with the ruthless transparency of the internet.
The entire episode underscores the fact that in the age of digital celebrity, nothing remains secret, and the perceived benefits of proximity to fame often come with a heavy, humiliating emotional cost.
Kimberlyโs choice to prioritize herself is the most significant, definitive move in the entire saga, effectively closing the book on her specific involvement while simultaneously opening a floodgate of new questions about Murdah Bongzโs integrity and the longevity of his marriage.
The lack of control over the narrative, now firmly in the hands of various disgruntled ‘side chicks,’ presents an unprecedented crisis management nightmare for the celebrity DJ.
This scandal is no longer just a rumor; it has become a multi-source, multi-timeline account of alleged repeated deception, making it increasingly difficult for the primary couple to maintain their public composure.
The true impact of this public humiliation on DJ Zinhle’s position within the marriage remains the final, and most crucial, unknown in this evolving narrative.
The public will now wait to see if the “I choose myself” moment from Kimberly is the final domino to fall, or merely the beginning of a larger, more permanent separation.
